Back On Track
Dear Gayl, I am feeling depressed and stuck. I am 34 years old and single with a fine arts degree. I am an undiscovered actress working as a cashier. I keep hoping that I am going to be discovered by a...
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Dear Gayl, I grew up in a small town. I dated men throughout my late teens and early twenties, but fantasized about women, especially during sex. Fast forward 15 years and I’m married with two...
View ArticleConvincing
Dear Gayl, I recently told my mother that I am a lesbian. She shook her head and replied that she thought so. My Mom and I have a long history of being at odds. When I was growing up she always wanted...
View ArticleUnworthy Soul
Dear Gayl, I met a woman at church. We became friends and started to hang out. I told her that I was attracted to her and that I was interested in dating. She agreed. Well, before we had our first...
View ArticleObsessed
Dear Gayl, I am a 29 year old married woman. I have fallen madly in love with a gorgeous woman who is about my age, already divorced twice and has two children. We have actually been best friends for a...
View ArticleConflicted
Dear Gayl, I have a close friend who I believe to be a predator. She has a history of going after women in committed relationships including women married to men. I’ve watched her flirt and come-on to...
View ArticleWork Exhaustion
Dear Gayl, I have a work situation. I work in a company that depending on what department you work in determines whether you are “out” or not. Unfortunately, I work in a more conservative department. I...
View ArticleCritically Tired
Dear Gayl, I have been with my girlfriend for several years. She constantly criticizes me. I can’t remember the last time she gave me a compliment. She complains about my appearance, my family, my...
View ArticleTo Tell or Not
Dear Gayl, I am not certain what to do. I am out to my sisters and brother, but not to my parents. I am 22 years old and a senior in college studying genetics. I have great friends, both gay and...
View ArticleRegrouping
Dear Gayl, My partner and I have been together eight years. Although we live under the same roof, sleep in the same bed, eat together, combine our laundry, sit in the same room and see each other...
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